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Men Strive for Absolute Sexuality, While Women Settle for Relative Sexuality
Jan 18th
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The most intense feelings we can all get is through sexuality, and perhaps life is meant to be intensely pleasurable. In order to feel as though we have a right to intense pleasure, we need to be able to be free from how we are indoctrinated to be defensive about pleasure. We are all brought up in an atmosphere of repression, especially sexual repression, and one way to break free from this is to develop alternatives to learned defensiveness. (Instinctual and intuitive defensiveness is unlearned and arises spontaneously, i.e., the “fight or flight” instinct response.)
Instead of enjoying our physical sensuality and trusting that what we feel IS pleasurable, we often begin to question it, especially if we are deprived of affection and affectionate touching as infants and/or toddlers. This affection may be a kind of PRACTICE validity that we use to build a self that feels deserving of pleasure. If a kind of primary contentedness is lacking we may seek EXTERNALLY derived validity, namely others to CONFIRM that what we FEEL is, in fact what we feel in the first place. This questioning of our validity is our introduction to indoctrination. We think we HAVE to “fit in” to society and, or culture, when, if we only trusted in our own validity, we could have limitless pleasure.
If we all could allow ourselves to become less repressed sexually, we would have a better world. Often, instead of allowing ourselves to “plug-in” and be “filled up” we are prevented, and/or we prevent ourselves from doing so. We need to comprehend that the more we fight repression and enjoy our selves and our lives instead of “going along” to get along, we can maximize our energy. When we allow our NATURAL energies to become repressed, they must be redirected and the most common way we redirect our energies is through internal or external anger. Internal anger becomes depression and external anger becomes symbolic to actual violence.
Women are less likely to see the value in seeking freedom from sexual repression because women are more objectified and are taught from an early age to have an effect on others, especially men, and to have relationships instead of even HAVING a self TO relate to and feel. In other words, a woman is often reduced, limited, defined by her relationships to others and reduced, limited and defined by her appearance and the effect her appearance has on others. As a result females may consider themselves valid only to the extent that they are in a relationship to others, instead of being in a primary relationship to themselves. This may cause women to ignore, trivialize, invalidate, etc., their own sexuality.
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How Women Find Their Sexuality
Jan 14th
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“I wasn’t allowed to date until I was sixteen.”
“I used to cuddle on my daddy’s lap but after I turned twelve, he wouldn’t even hug me anymore. He yelled at me to ‘put something on!’ when I came downstairs to watch television in my pajamas when I was fifteen. “
“We used to have sleepovers with all the cousins, boys and girls, together.”
“My cousin, Sally, and me, we would sneak to the pond and watch the boys when they swam naked.”
“It was almost by accident, I pressed the hair brush handle against myself.”
“I used to love sliding up and down the playground pole.”
“My mom and I went horseback riding…”
“I found a bunch of magazines in my brother’s room. I couldn’t believe what I was looking at!”
“The pastor of my church was very clear that dancing was the Devil’s work.”
“My mom got so embarrassed by the sex education material that the school sent home that she hurried from the room, leaving me to stare at the floor and my dad to shift awkwardly in his chair.”
“We used to watch Sex in the City together.”
“When mom caught me touching myself in the bathtub she explained that there were pleasurable feelings that were good but that I couldn’t touch myself around other people.”
“In high school, someone had a copy of Fanny Hill. We passed it along until the pages began to tear.”
“My best friend and I were comparing our boobs. One thing led to another and soon we were kissing and touching each other…”
These are just a few examples of ways that women come to understand something essential about their sexuality. The exploration and awareness of what we are feeling in our bodies is our introduction to our sexuality. The truth is that we do not find our sexuality so much as we “rediscover” it as we get older. What I have found enlightening from my many, many discussions with women is that when I ask them how they found their sexuality, many of them refer to a time long before puberty.
In other words, long before a time that we normally associate with being sexually mature.
For small children, discovering their penises and vaginas is a time of delightful discovery – and pleasure. Those “privates” that had been hidden away in thick diapers and clothes become available in bathtubs or running around the house without any clothing on as our mothers chased after us, imploring us to get dressed. But they were laughing and smiling when they did.
As we become toilet trained, we begin to associate all sorts of pleasurable – and sometimes shameful – feelings with our genitals. A few scenarios to illustrate this, I will introduce Mona.
I have a friend, I will call her “Mona”, who recalls the first time she was conscious of “discovering” her vagina. And that there was some kind of shame involved with her discovery.
I was with the other kids on the block. We always played together. God, how old could I have been? Maybe eight or nine. Anyway, I don’t know how it happened but the four or five of us started showing each other our bodies. It probably started because it was a warm day and the boys weren’t wearing shirts.
It seemed silly to me that I had to wear a shirt. After all, it wasn’t as if there was anything different between my chest and the boys’ chests at that point. We were all just skinny little bean poles. We were children for God’s sake.
Anyway, we were running through the sprinklers and, of course, the clothes we kept on were getting wet. So, it made perfect sense to simply take the clothes off.
I’m sure we were aware that we were doing something “wrong.” After all, we didn’t generally run around naked. I remember not long before this my dad had accidentally walked into the bathroom when I was taking a bath. He seemed so unnerved and embarrassed. He practically fell over himself to get back out of the bathroom. I wondered if there was anything wrong.
Of course, I didn’t ask him about it. We didn’t talk much in general in our house. My parents were lovely people but they were a bit emotionally distant. They could be strict but most of the time they were just there, background presences. I think most parents were like that then.
So, we were running through the sprinklers naked when Bobby, I think it was Bobby, pointed at me and laughed. I asked him what he was laughing at and he said that I didn’t have a penis. I can still feel the way I felt. It was a combination of defensiveness and anger and… and… and a sense that something was missing. Isn’t that terrible? That I would think that.
Of course, I was smart enough to tell him that I wasn’t supposed to have a penis, that I was a girl. I had a vagina. He asked how I peed without a penis. The other girl in the group, Susie, told him that she would show him. So she just squatted down on the grass near the sprinkler and peed.
We all giggled. It was all good-natured. We were all the best of friends. Our parents were good friends. We had BBQ’s together.
I made Elliot, the seven-year-old, bend over so we could see where he “made” from. Then we all showed our rear ends to one another. I think it was about then when my mom appeared. I don’t know if she’d been watching us or if she’d just showed up but I looked up and saw the expression on her face and I couldn’t place it. She was shocked. Outraged. Unnerved. Everything at once. She sure wasn’t amused.
She marched over and even though the sprinkler was spraying on her she grabbed me by the arm and began to drag me away.
“My clothes!” I cried out, not wanting to be dragged across the street to our house without my clothes on.
“You should have thought of that before!” she snapped.
She dragged me while I cried and screamed. She smacked my bottom a couple of times as we crossed the street. When we got home, she really gave me a spanking. Then she made me stay in my room, promising to tell my father as soon as he got home.
Which she did.
My father came into my room and looked right at me. “I’m very disappointed in you, Princess.” That’s what he said, in those exact words. He told me I should never, ever behave like that again. Then he told me that he would have to smack me with the belt – the most severe punishment in our house and one that was generally only visited upon my brother. But that day, I got the belt.
Later, I heard my parents through my bedroom door. They seemed to be talking about whether I had to be taken to the doctor, although I couldn’t for the life of me figure out why – unless it was because they’d spanked me too hard.
I’m sure it is just the way I am misremembering it, but I can’t recall ever playing together with those friends like that again.
From then on, girls played with girls and boys played with boys.
And no one ever spoke about the incident again.
Mona’s experience is very insightful in that it brings into play many of the things that contribute to our sense of our sexuality. There was a peer group. Clearly, there was some “objective” knowledge that the children had gained from someplace – family or books – because they knew what their genitals were called and that boys had penises and girls had vaginas. In addition, despite no “spoken” prohibition, they all knew that being naked was somehow “not allowed” even though they could see no reason for it.
Finally, Mona’s family had a tremendous impact on this event and experience. Unfortunately, the message she received from her parents’ reaction was a powerfully negative one.
Just a few of the lessons that Mona came with were that nudity was wrong, that her behavior, though childlike and innocent, was wrong and bad, that what she did was deserving of punishment.
There was no discussion. No explanation. No acknowledgement that everyone is curious and that there are better (“more comfortable” for her parents) ways to learn.
Imagine what could have been.
Mona’s mother could have let Mona collect her clothes. She could have held her hand as they crossed the street, making it clear that even though she was separating Mona from the activity she didn’t think that Mona was “bad.”
When they got back to the house, she could have suggested that Mona get cleaned up and dried off.
“Why don’t you take a quick bath and I’ll make a snack?”
Then, when they were sitting together enjoying a snack, Mona’s mother could have acknowledged Mona’s curiosity and found an appropriate way to discuss her body. In other words, Mona’s mother could have nurtured Mona’s sexuality.
It was, of course, very unlikely that she’d do that. Mona’s mother no doubt struggled with a blunted sexuality herself. Sex was not discussed in the house. There were no overt displays of affection between Mona’s parents.
“Just a coolness. A distance,” Mona said. “They were such lovely people, really. I can’t say that I thought they were ever happy though.”
Ah, happiness. There’s a difficult concept to address. We all want to be happy but that “pursuit of happiness” seems to trip us up frequently. Perhaps because we are only guaranteed the “pursuit” and not the “happiness.”
What I can say is that Mona is only now beginning to feel comfortable with her sexuality – after two divorces and several unsatisfying relationships.
I would not suggest that there was a direct link to Mona’s playful experience, her parents’ reaction, and how she developed into a sexually struggling and then sexual mature adult. What the incident does do is highlight the various factors that come into play in our developing sense of our sexuality and why, for so many women, the task is to rediscover their sexuality rather than to “find” it.
Mona, as it turned out, was developing her sexuality in a wonderful, organic and comfortable way. Her parents’ reaction blunted that and submerged that quality, causing her to struggle to “get back” to that same kind of view of her sexuality.
As Mona indicated, there was nothing in her parents’ reaction that was inconsistent with the way she was raised in general.
It is worth noting that other than comparing her chest to the boys’ (we were “skinny little bean poles”) there was no mention of other physical descriptions. No one was fat. No one had freckles. No one had big ears. Or stretch marks. Whatever.
This experience was pure sexual exploration – without the sex! – without the hang-ups and obstacles that make the process so difficult for us as adult women.
Until her mother showed up. Then there were only hang-ups.
There is no greater influence on our sense of ourselves as sexual selves than our families. Let me be very clear, I am not including those horrible situations when there is sexual abuse in the family. Clearly, such experiences are beyond damaging and demand intervention. But we are not talking about abused children.
For if history has taught us anything, it is that it does not take an abusive home to sow the seeds of sexual dysfunction. Another example to illustrate the development of sexuality is Meredith’s experience.
Meredith grew up in a solid, middle class family. Her father owned a service station. Her mother was an aide in the local elementary school. She grew up with an older sister and a younger brother. Her older sister was six years older. Her younger brother only two and a half years younger than she was.
“I was always close with Bruce,” she said, referring to her brother. “From the time I was six, I babysat him. I was around when my mom changed him. We always had a special bond.”
She and Bruce took baths together when they were small children and, while she was bathing them, her mother was not at all reluctant to answer their questions about Bruce’s penis or Meredith’s vagina.
Meredith’s father, though hardly a professional, was a lover of music and a reader of books. He was an affectionate father who encouraged Meredith to play ball just as much as he encouraged Bruce.
“Lots of summer nights, we’d be out playing catch with my dad after he got home from work,” she said wistfully.
The only “fly” in the ointment was Meredith’s older sister. “Sue was always a little wild. At least, that’s what mom said. Rebellious. Although, I couldn’t say what she was rebelling against. Seems to me we had a pretty good life.”
Although Meredith’s parents were very young when Sue was born, there was a degree of enlightenment in the household. Perhaps it was the connection to the school. Maybe it was their father’s devotion to music and books. At one point, he had wanted to be a musician and still harbored dreams of writing his own book. Maybe it was just that they had enjoyed the “fruits” of the sixties without the flame outs. Whatever it was they were very permissive raising Sue.
But when Sue hit adolescence, she seemed to have lost her way.
“Don’t worry,” Meredith’s mom assured her dad. “It’s just hormones.”
She wasn’t reassured. She started smoking cigarettes and sneaking out of the house at all hours of the night. When her parents tried to set limits, Sue screamed and shouted.
“She got pregnant when she was sixteen,” Meredith said with a shrug. “What was I? Ten years old? I don’t remember a lot. Just that there was a lot of tension in the house and my mom always seemed worried.”
Sue went to live with an aunt and she gave the baby up for adoption.
“She didn’t come back to live with us after that. It was almost like she was never part of the family,” Meredith said. “At least, not physically. Bruce and I used to refer to ‘Sue’s ghost’ all the time.”
What she meant by that was that her parent’s experience with Sue changed their outlook. They went from progressive, open parents to cautious, worried parents determined not to “make the same mistakes twice.”
Meredith was not allowed to date until she was seventeen. She wasn’t even allowed to go to boy-girl parties until she was sixteen, and then only if her parents knew that parents would be home during the party.
“But none of that was particularly damaging,” she said. “I understood where they were coming from. What was damaging was the silence that took over the house. It wasn’t for a long time after that that I realized that my dad didn’t listen to his music so much anymore.
“And he didn’t read very much. He’d just sit at the kitchen table and stare out the window.”
Seeing – and feeling – the sadness in the house had a real impact on Meredith. Without a conscious decision, she determined to be the model daughter, the perfect girl that Sue was not.
“It was like I was walking on egg shells, not wanting to make a mistake.”
She was valedictorian of her senior class. She was accepted into a very good college and, after that, medical school.
But there was always a sadness. Like a cloud, a cloud that settled upon her sexuality.
“I guess it made sense,” she said with a sigh. “After all, it was the sex that really changed everything. Until then, there were just the fights. But when Sue got pregnant… well, that just changed everything.”
Between focusing on her studies and her determination to never do anything to upset her parents, Meredith didn’t have a real boyfriend until her senior year of college.
“And we didn’t do much,” she admitted.
Her second boyfriend became her husband. They met in medical school. The first time they had sex it was quick, uncomfortable and not particularly satisfying.
“I loved him – I love him,” she said, quickly correcting herself. “But the sex thing somehow got locked up someplace deep. I mean, I studied anatomy. I was even thinking of becoming a gynecologist for a while.
“And yet, I was so uncomfortable with my own sexuality. Ironic, isn’t it?”
Ironic but not surprising. The cues we get as children have a powerful impact on how we develop into adults. In Meredith’s case, it would have seemed that her home and family environment was perfect for the development of a healthy sexual sensibility.
Dr. Allison has a Ph.D. in Human Services, an M.A. in Counseling Psychology, and a B.A. in Psychology; Dr. Allison Hopkins has spent the last 14 years counseling couples and individuals through relationship issues as well as problems encountered in everyday life (terminally ill, sexual dysfunction, couples, adolescents, sports performance, stress & anxiety, weight management). Dr. Allison is also author of: In Touch: AN EXPLORATION OF FEMALE SEXUALITY. For more info or to contact Dr. Allison visit our site: http://www.drallisonhopkins.com/
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How To Treat Sexual Problems In Older Women
Jan 9th
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It is a well-known fact that as women start aging they tend to get stiff and after a certain age completely lose interest in sexual activities. This is a very common complaint of sexually active men who have such aging partners and this situation can easily lead to problems in a relationship and sometimes even separation. In this article let us discuss about some of the ways through which older women can revive their sexual life and also find out some of the common reasons which can lead to low libido in women.
Causes
There are many factors that can contribute to loss of libido in women like hormonal imbalance, bodily changes, stress, depression, menopause, undesirable sexual partner and so on. It is advisable to consult a sexual expert for such a situation as he will be able to map out the exact form of treatment which is best suited for you.
Normal Treatment Techniques For Enhancing Libido In Aged Women
The number one problem faced by elder women is their vagina loosing its firmness. It leads to unsatisfied sexual sessions as the feeling of penetration is completely lost both partners do not enjoy sex satisfactorily. In recent past this problem has been kept under control by women through the use of vagina tightening creams and kegel exercises which target the pelvic area.
Vaginal dryness is another problem faced by women normally during menopause due to lack of estrogen. When a vagina is dry sex can become very painful hence women try to avoid sexual intercourse in order to escape pain associated with sex. This problem can also be overcome through the use of natural vaginal lubricating creams. These creams help in optimum lubrication of a vagina and almost completely eradicate the pain during sex.
Hormonal imbalance is also a major cause of sexual problems in women. A large majority of women feel stressed out during the early phase of menopause and deficiency of estrogen during such a phase can lead to lack of sexual desire, insomnia and hot flashes.
In such a case women can take the help of natural herbs which can help in fulfilling the deficiency of estrogen in the body. Herbs like fenugreek and wild yam and saw palmetto have high estrogen content and are generally used to enhance sexual drive in women. Herbal products like Femvigor can be used in such a situation.
Spend Time With Your Partner
This is the most important aspect of treatment in any type of medical problem. It is very important to discuss your problems with your partner which will help in strengthening your relationship. You can plan a dinner together, watch her favorite movies and do whatever you think can help in getting that spark back into your love life.
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Sexual Secrets Part 2: If You Want To Satisfy Your Woman In Bed You Must Know This Fact About Women
Jan 5th
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If you are a man who would like to SATISFY HIS WOMAN (or the next woman you meet if you are currently single) – then read on very carefully because you are about to discover a SEXUAL SECRET about women that you must know.
The interesting thing is that most men are totally unaware of this secret.
In contrast, every emotionally healthy woman who I have ever met knows this secret and THEY WISH more MEN TO KNEW IT TOO.
You see, the thing is – if you don’t know the sexual secret about women that I’m about to share with you, it doesn’t matter what SEXUAL TECHNIQUES and POSITIONS you learn… You will never fully satisfy your woman.
Never.
Are you interested to know what this secret is?
Ok, I’ll stop teasing you and tell you…
Here Is The Sexual Secret That You Must Know In Order To Satisfy Any Woman
- Women are SEXUALLY SUBMISSIVE
There you go. That’s the secret.
Now, you might not think that sounds like much, but allow me to explain why it is so important that you keep in mind that women are sexually submissive if you want to give them GREAT SEX.
Basically, women like strong, sexually confident men who LEAD THEM through wildly exciting sexual adventures.
When a woman is with a strong, masculine, sexually confident man – she can totally SURRENDER to him in the bedroom, follow his lead and be submissive.
This is what she wants.
This is not a sexist view point. This is not a male chauvinistic view point. This is not derogatory to women in any way.
This is just a FACT.
And you’d be wise to remember it if you want to SATISFY YOUR WOMAN in bed.
Unfortunately, many women are not with a strong, masculine sexually confident man. They are with a “nice guy” who is a bit of a wimp. And these kinds of men frustrate women in the bedroom like you wouldn’t believe.
So in order to stand out from the average guy and please any woman in the bedroom by giving her wild, screaming orgasms – you must do the following:
Understand that women are sexually submissiveKnow that women want to FOLLOW THE LEAD of a strong, masculine, sexually confident manAvoid doing the things average “nice guys” do that frustrate women (asking for sex is a common example and women HATE THIS. Instead, they want their man to instigate the sex)Listen up – what I’ve shared with you here is what you don’t tend to find in mainstream sex advice.
The reason why you don’t tend to find things like this is mainstream sex advice is because the people writing that stuff often don’t really know what they are talking about and they are afraid of offending people.
However, I believe in telling things AS THEY ACTUALLY ARE, not a make believe fantasy version of events like many so called “experts” give.
Look, the bottom line is that if you want to give your woman pleasure so intense that she screams your name and brags to her friends about what a STUD you are IN THE BEDROOM – you must always keep in mind that women are sexually submissive.
When you do keep that sexual secret in mind, not only will you stand out from all the other guys – you will also become a stronger, more masculine, sexually confident guy because you will know that is what your woman craves, needs, wants and desires.
From that point, instead of desperately trying to give your woman one orgasm (like most guys struggle to do) – you’ll be able to give your woman clitoral, vaginal, multiple and even anal and squirting orgasms.
And that is when you join the elite one per-cent of men who truly “get women” and make them sexually excited in a way that the average man just doesn’t have a clue about.
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Spices That Raise Sex Drive In Men And Women
Jan 3rd
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People who suffer from low libido or low sexual drive problem often feel embarrassed about and it definitely can cause big problems in a relationship. A person can feel highly stressed out due to this condition of low libido. In such a scenario it is generally advised to consult your doctor but there are some home remedies also available which can help in spicing up your sex life all over again. In this article we are going to find out about some of the spices which you can use to enhance your sexual powers without causing any harm to your body.
Causes Of Low Sex Drive
The causes of low libido in both men and women are generally same. Some of these causes include depression, high stress levels, side effect of diabetes, unbalanced diet, lack of sleep and so on.
Now let us discuss about some of the spices and herbs helpful in enhancing your sexual powers.
1. Cinnamon
It is one of the most effective spices used in enhancing sexual drive of both men and women. It has been used for hundreds of years as a sex enhancement home remedy. It is a well-known fact that people with increased blood sugar levels or diabetes generally suffer from problems like lack of libido, impotence and decreased sperm count.
Cinnamon helps in bringing down the blood sugar levels thereby automatically helping in improving sex drive of people with high blood sugar. It can be consumed by adding it to tea or coffee or simply to your food. Do not expect it work instantly but give it some time to act on your body. You will be amazed with the final results.
2. Ginger
It is one of the most widely used spice all over the world and it has sex stimulating properties. It can be easily consumed by adding it to tea or its paste can be added to food. Ginger works by stimulating the sex organs through enhanced flow of blood to the sexual organs.
3. Clove Oil
It is one of the best natural sex boosters known to man. It works by heating up the body and stimulates the sexual organs. Many experts believe that even a very small dosage of clove oil can help you go that extra mile in bed because of the energy the body receives from consumption of clove oil.
4. Capsicum
It works by dilating the blood vessels hence automatically the flow of blood to the sexual organs is increased which is essential for their optimal performance. For men who struggle to last longer in bed this is a magical spice for them.
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The Art of Seduction for Women – Part 1
Dec 28th
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The art of seduction is a skill that shall be mastered by every woman. The art and rules of seduction for women differs from the art and rules of seduction for men. As it works best when it is done in a subtle, smooth and non-aggressive manner.
Body Language
Body language plays an extremely important role in the art of seduction, as most of human communications are non-verbal. If you do it right, you don’t even have to say much to attract a person, it is a subject that deserves an entire book to explain and discover.
Think Fishing
Seduction is a lot like fishing! With the similar theory as you would place an attractive bait on a hook, and locate it at the right place that has lots of fishes swimming around. You’d fish different types of fishes with different type of fishing rod, baits and techniques, some fish you need to purposely shook the bait every once in a while to make it more alluring. Some you just sit there and wait, for some fish you must reel them in gently, slowly and carefully, and some you just reel them in with fierce strength. Same theory, it is all about using the suitable strategy, the right amount of strength, and use them at the right timing and occasions.
The Teasing Game
Teasing someone gracefully in seduction is a highly sophisticated skill; it involves knowing how far can you go to tease someone? And also how far should you go to get optimal result? How you go about it and how far should you go about it if up for you to decide. If you went over the board you might end up pissing him off, but if done correctly, it shows you are a fun, adventurous, witty, charming and attractive woman!
The rule of thumb; when teasing him with the stuff you said, always pick something that he can come back on, and try to avoid any touchy topic, otherwise you might hurt his feelings and made him feels like it was just you putting him down with your words, and it will not do you any good if he actually perceived it that way.
Touching in a Subtle Manner
Touching is very powerful agent, it creates a sense or feeling of intimacy, but you as a lady, if you want to use this technique, do it in a subtle manner; so men won’t think you are easy and slutty and coming on too strong (Yes, we enjoy your touch, but we will think you are easy if you go all out on us!). And here are some examples that you can touch him in a subtle way, and you shall elaborate on your own and be creative!
Ex. In a crowded club you can brush lightly against him when dancing, or grab his wrist when walking through crowds towards the bar.
Ex. When he tells you a funny joke or story, you can gently tap or touch his forearm while laughing to his jokes or story.
Take a Picture with him and Get Closer
Do not underestimate the power of taking photos in a subtle, but seductive! Taking a picture with him is the perfect moment and chance to get close to him physically, you can even brush again him, lean close to him, brush him with your hair purposely and make it seem like that you are merely posing for the picture and didn’t do it on purpose.
Picture taking is one of the few moments that it is perfectly natural to lean close to each other for the picture, so use it to your advantage, always bring a camera and ask him from time to time to take a picture, picture with you and him, or if you want it to seem more natural, then ask other friends to join in for the picture. When you are physically close to someone in a repetitive manner, it builds intimacy; just don’t overdo it like a crazy picture-taking maniac. Moderation is always the key!
The Art of Giving Out Subtle Hints
Giving out subtle hints is crucial skill in mastering seduction; in which you give out hints to encourage him to take actions in your favor without being overly pushy or obvious with your true intention. Some examples of giving out subtle hints:
Ex. Frequent smile, there are many different kinds of smiles, to be subtle, we suggest a smile that will fall between a friendly smile and a seductive smile, or it could lean more towards either one.
Ex. In a club dance next to him without being too close, you wouldn’t want to stand by, or dance next to a person that you don’t like; so if he is not too dumb he will get the hint. And of course you can send him a more obvious hint by dancing closer to him.
Ex. Ask him to take picture with you, just you two, he will somehow know it is a sign of interest, because you wouldn’t ask someone you don’t like to take a picture with you!
Being an Elegant Seductress
Audrey Hepburn would be the perfect example of an elegant seductress, she is elegant and graceful, she is charming in every ways, she is got the look and she is very feminine, she is a lady and she acts like one, she doesn’t chase after men like a Man Eater, but she always has men fell over her feet and chase after her.
She gives subtle hints and she flirts in style that mostly happen through witty and teasing conversations with men, in which shows that she is witty and actually has a brain, and she always has those iconic styles that are so classy that they last forever.
For most of men, a woman being categorized as an Man Eater is not very charming at all. A prime example of a Man Eater; think Samantha from Sex and City, if you are after lots of sex, then you can think of her as your role model or mentor, otherwise, think Audrey or other more sophisticated people around you or in movies as your seduction and attraction inspirations and mentors.
Text Message as a Power Tool
You might ask, in a world when free phone calls are made available through Skype or smart phone applications such as Viber or Tango why still use text message? Well, it is because text message provides several advantages over phone calls. Here are some examples:
Ex. Some people are phone shy, maybe you are not, but some people are, from our understanding, more people than you know. (I know it for a fact because I used to be one of them!)
To shy people and shy men, text message doesn’t give them heart attacks like live phone conversation does. So they will be more likely to reply back and continue on with the exchange of conversation. Shy people sometimes are reluctant to pick up phone call simply because they get too nervous talking on the phone…. I used to felt that pain.
Ex. Text message is more casual than phone calls, therefore it can be used as perfect ice breaker, with phone calls you cannot just say something like hello or what’s up, you are almost required to say more stuff, but you can do it with text messages, and after several exchanges of causal text messages, once you and him got familiarized, it is only natural for you and him to escalate to a phone conversation.
Ex. Text message allows you time to think for a perfect answer, sometimes when you talk to him on the phone for the first time you or him might get nervous and say something stupid or awkward, but with text message you can always think for best and most suitable answer. I personally prefer text message than phone calls, it has always work magic for me personally!!
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Sex Advice – Why Women Like Unpredictable Bad Boys And How You Can Give Your Woman Better Sex
Dec 26th
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If you’re a guy who’d like to discover how to give your woman better sex… you’d be sensible to try to be a bit more of a BAD BOY IN THE BEDROOM.
The reason why I say that is because WOMEN LOVE these types of men IN THE BEDROOM. In contrast, most (and I really do mean most) men frustrate and annoy women in the bedroom by giving them lame sex.
For proof of this, consider the fact that 50% of women have CHEATED on a man who they were in a sexual relationship with. Ouch.
And we men think it’s only guys who cheat. Think again. Women are just way better at covering their tracks and not telling anyone when they’ve “been a bit naughty”.
But here’s the thing… If you want to make sure your woman NEVER CHEATS ON YOU and wants to have sex with you every day – you better make sure you give her lots of good sex (and good sex means sex where you give her ORGASMS).
Bad Boys have many personality traits that make women sexually attracted to them that the average guy just doesn’t have.
One of those traits is that they are UNPREDICTABLE.
Now that you know that, it makes sense that you and I should talk about…
Why Women Like Unpredictable Bad Boys
I want you to take a second to imagine what it’s like for a woman to have sex with a BAD BOY.
For starters, she is wildly excited every time she goes to the bedroom because she knows that she is going to have hot, passionate, naughty sex.
Better still, she knows that she is going to have ORGASMS – lots of delicious orgasms. Orgasms that make her body shake and tears come to her eyes (those are tears of joy by the way).
What she doesn’t know is HOW she is going to have sex.
And that makes it very exciting for her. The bad boy is unpredictable. And in the bedroom, his unpredictability presents itself as a new sexual adventure every time he makes love to his woman.
He uses different sexual positions, has sex in different locations and generally “mixes thing up”.
For women, that excitement and unpredictability is a HUGE TURN ON and it keeps her coming back for more.
Now let’s compare this to how the “average guy” approaches sex.
Most men (we’re talking at least 90%) are clueless when it comes to pleasing women in the bedroom.
Unlike the Bad Boys – who give their women clitoral, vaginal and MULTIPLE ORGASMS, the average guy is lucky to give his woman one clitoral orgasm.
(IMPORTANT NOTE: 70% of women have never had a vaginal orgasm – but the vast majority of the 30% who have, all agree that vaginal orgasms are WAY BETTER than clitoral orgasms).
So… the average guy doesn’t give his woman anywhere near as much sexual pleasure as the Bad Boys do. Put another way – the average guy just isn’t as good at SATISFYING his woman in the bedroom as a bad boy is.
It’s true to say that there are many reasons why the average guy’s sexual performance just does not compare to the Bad Boys, one of those reasons being that the average guy is JUST TOO PREDICTABLE in the bedroom and this becomes boring for his woman.
What I can say with total certainty is that any man can learn how to become more of a bad boy in the bedroom and become a better lover.
You can learn how to be more unpredictable (even if you aren’t right now) and you can learn how to give your woman incredible pleasure.
To find out more about how to be more of a bad boy in the bedroom and to discover the sexual secrets that will enable you to SATISFY ANY WOMAN in the bedroom, click HERE
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Relationship Advice – Why Women Cheat On Men And How To Make Sure Your Woman Never Cheats On You
Dec 22nd
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Did you know that approximately 50% of women have CHEATED on their men at some point in their lives?
I’ll admit something to you right now – when I first heard that number (many years ago) I was amazed. I mean really, I had no clue that that many women cheated on their men when in a sexual relationship.
However, what I can tell you now is this – that number NO LONGER SURPRISES ME. Seriously, it doesn’t (and I’m inclined to think that it could actually be much higher than 50%. YES, really – higher than 50%).
Let me tell you why.
Here’s some relationship advice that you should read and literally “burn into your memory” forever…
Why Women Cheat On Men And How To Make Sure Your Woman Never Cheats On You
Here’s the thing…
When most men find out that their woman has cheated on them, they usually react in one of the following ways:
Either:
- They call her every name and swear word imaginable and go into “hate” mode
Or:
- They blame the whole “cheating” scenario on THE MAN SHE CHEATED WITH and call him every name imaginable and say that they want to punch him (or worse)
Now let me share a little insight with you…
And that insight is that both of the reactions I just described are stupid. And I don’t mean a little bit stupid – I mean really, totally, completely STUPID.
Now this next bit is where you need to REALLY PAY ATTENTION because it could stop you from being cheated on every again.
So pay attention…
When a woman cheats on her man it is usually (and by usually, I mean virtually always) not because she is a horrible woman, or because the man she had the affair/fling/one night stand with was a horrible man.
No, no, no.
The real reason why she cheated was because SHE WAS UNHAPPY IN SOME WAY.
Now you had better read that line again because if you “get that”, you are now ahead of 99% of guys who just don’t see it that way.
You see, nobody cheats if they are totally CONTENT and happy.
Indeed, there is an old saying that goes something like this:
“You cannot seduce a content person”.
Are you getting me here? Women only cheat when they are not content and they are not getting something out of their sexual relationship that they really want and need.
You may be thinking that MONEY is a big reason why women cheat – that women cheat with men who have more money and can buy them more things, but I assure you, nothing could be further from the truth.
However, I can tell you four things that every woman needs in a relationship. And if you understand these four things – you will then be able to make sure that your woman NEVER CHEATS ON YOU.
And I’m being deadly serious about that.
Would you like to know what those four magic things are?
I bet you would. And I’m feeling generous, so I’ll share them with you…
Here are 4 things that you must give your woman in order to make sure she NEVER cheats on you
Every single woman I have ever asked about this agrees on the following points. (In other words, these four things are what every woman wants from their man whilst in a sexual relationship):
1. They want to feel appreciated. So the rule is to never take your woman for granted and always show her that you appreciate her.
2. Women want to feel SEXY and FEMININE. Occasionally paying your woman a compliment and telling her how good she looks (or a certain part of her body looks) can go a long way. Try it.
3. Women need an emotional connection. Said differently, you must connect with your woman on an emotional level.
And the most important thing of all? Here it is…
4. Women need GREAT SEX (or they will look for it elsewhere). And let me tell you – most guys have no idea what great sex is.
Here’s what great sex is not: doing the same things over and over again and giving your woman one clitoral orgasm or FAILING TO GIVE HER ANY ORGASMS
Here is what great sex is: giving your woman wildly exciting and different sex every time you take her to the bedroom and giving her many orgasms.
You should be giving your woman clitoral, VAGINAL and multiple orgasms as a minimum. Add in some squirting orgasms and she’ll think you are THE PERFECT MAN and she’ll never cheat on you.
To discover the sexual techniques you need to use to give your woman vaginal, multiple and squirting orgasms and to find out how to SATISFY ANY WOMAN, click HERE.
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Sex Secrets – Top 7 Sexual Fantasies Women Think About And Wish Their Men Would Make A Reality
Dec 16th
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Women think about sex all the time and because sex is very mental for women – they tend to have much more wild and naughty sexual fantasies than men do. Yes, really, they do.
It’s just a sad fact that most men don’t realise this and therefore don’t ever truly satisfy their woman.
If you want to satisfy your woman, try making some of the naughty thoughts that are going on inside her head a reality for her. when you do, you’ll have the best sex of your life and she’ll have the strongest orgasms of her life…
Here is what many women are fantasizing about…
Top 7 Sexual Fantasies Women Think About And Wish Their Men Would Make A Reality
1. Dirty Talk
Remember how we just said that for women – sex is very mental?
Well – guess what the best way to stimulate a woman’s mind in the bedroom is? You got it – dirty talk.
Start talking dirty to your woman every time you have sex. She’ll love it and it’ll be easier to make her climax when you use your voice.
2. Outstanding Oral Sex
Most men give women oral sex as if it was a chore and women can sense this. When a woman senses that a man is not really enjoying giving her oral sex, it lowers the pleasure for her and she probably won’t have an orgasm.
Women absolutely crave a man who gives them oral sex with passion and explores every part of their vagina (not just their clitoris).
3. Being Out Of Control
Many women fantasize about having sex with a big, strong man. Some women want to be held down, others tied up. Some even want to experience the rape fantasy.
Being out of control is the ultimate way for a woman to be totally submissive and a man to be totally dominant.
This can be a hugely powerful fantasy – just be careful with it.
4. Naughty School Girl
The naughty school girl fantasy involves your woman pretending to be young and innocent. When you try this, you should take the role of the teacher who calls the school girl into his office and “punishes” her for being a bad girl.
This one is really “wrong”, but it feels so right for most women.
5. Threesome
Many women won’t admit it, but they’d secretly love to have sex with their man and another man or woman. Be careful how you go about making this happen, but if you decide to do it – it could be one of the most powerful sexual experiences of your life.
Two men and one woman is the more powerful fantasy for most women as it allows them to totally let go and be ravaged by two strong, masculine guys.
Women have more naughty minds than most men could ever imagine.
6. Sex Party
Sex parties do exist. Do a little research online and you can read all about them.
Women like the idea of sex parties because there is something very dirty and naughty about a room full of people there for one reason and one reason only – SEX.
7. No Money To Pay
Another powerful fantasy for a woman is where she has to pay for a service using her body because she has “forgotten her money”.
A classic example is where she takes her car in for a service and then realises she has run out of money. In order to get her car back – she pays the mechanic in “another way”.
Have fun with these fantasies and try making some of them a REALITY for your woman. She’ll be very grateful when you do.
Just keep in mind that sexual fantasies are just another way to help your woman to have what she really wants needs and craves in the bedroom – orgasms. Lots and lots of orgasms.
To discover the sexual techniques that will allow you to give any woman mind-blowing orgasms and total sexual satisfaction,
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Sex Tips From a Woman on How to Give Women Sacred Mind Blowing Orgasms
Dec 16th
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Almost every man desires to be considered a superstar lover, yet not all men can claim that title. Have you ever wondered what it really takes to make a woman orgasm for hours on end? Do you really want to know the secret of the sex gods who get women coming for more? I’m gonna to share with you how you can become the kind of lover she never wants to leave and who craves you more than any other man!
First, let’s talk about how most are taught about sex. Generally, in our society, sex is either repressed or perverted. We are taught to keep quite about sex. We are taught we to be ashamed of how we feel sexually. And alot of men are carrying around repressed feelings of self shame and lack of self identity in the area of their sexuality. Believe it or not, your ability to really please a woman has alot to do with whether you have true, healthy knowledge about your own sexuality.
If you want to get your woman screaming for hours, you have to know how to deprogram yourself from your own sexual shame. Yes, although men are taught it’s manly to want sex and manly to sleep around, many also carry deep sexual shame that prevents them from truly being the sexual superstars they could be. Apart of this shame translates into men thinking they are great lovers without proper instruction, skill, or real sexual education. Most learn from porn, ideas they get from their buddies, or magazines directed at men around sex and not from someone who has the right knowledge and experience.
I can tell you this: if you have not invested in your self knowledge around your own sexual potentiality, it is very likely you don’t know the true potential of what it means to be a great lover. I know that for alot of men, the shame of not being able to be a great lover is quite great. Deep on the inside, they know they aren’t truly pleasing their women, yet they continue to live in this silent shame.
In order to give women the kind of mind bending orgasms that will make her thighs quiver for hours on end and leave her totally and completely surrendered to you, your own sexual identity must be redefined. It means that you transcend your current sexual knowledge into something so beyond the ordinary that it makes you a master at what you do.
Knowing about female orgasms is the first key. Having an understanding that women can have at least 8 plus different kinds of orgasms, and wanting to take her on this kind of adventure. She will be so spell bond by you, and so intoxicated by her pleasure, she will keep coming back for more.
Know how to take women on the kind of sexual adventure they will never forget by learning the top secrets from a woman. I’ve written tons of free info on the next page that will show you how to be a sexual superstar. Click here to check it out: http://www.rockstarseducer.com/
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Tips for Sexually Attracting Women – 3 Tips to Make Her Want You In Her Bedroom!
Dec 6th
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How bad does it feel when you know that you really desire to be with a particular woman and you know that she does not feel the same way? For any guy that has ever felt that way, then he knows just what an awful feeling that can be. To think that you are totally attracted to a woman but she does not feel the same way… that is something that can be really hard to deal with.
Usually the most prevalent reason for why that happens is because you have failed to make her feel sexual attraction. Truth is, most men are not all that bad in making a woman feel that platonic kind of attraction that she has with her guy friends. What most men DO have a hard time with is taking that platonic attraction and turning it into something MORE than that.
For that reason, take a look at these sexual attraction tips that will make her want you in her bedroom:
1) Talk sexy to her.
Here’s the real trick about sexy talk with a woman. What most guys think is sexy seems more perverted to a woman. Leave out the kind of conversation that belongs in an adult magazine and focus more on the kind of talk that you would hear in a romance movie. It’s perfectly fine to talk sexy to a woman, but if it comes off as being raunchy… that’s not good at all.
2) Deny her a little bit here and there.
Don’t be so open with your attraction for her that there is nothing left to her imagination. Deny her some of that overt attraction and let her wonder a bit about what is going on between the two of you. It’s good to be open about some things, but being too open can make it so that she suddenly finds that she thinks of you as more of a friend than a lover.
3) Let her know that she will be satisfied.
Sex for guys is pretty basic and it pretty much always ends with an orgasm. Not the same for a woman. In fact, while they won’t just come right out and say it, most women end up pretty dissatisfied with their sex lives. Let her know that will not be the case. Give her a little teaser by showing that you will be thinking of her needs and not just yours.
Do you want to get more tips on how to sexually attract women and make women want to take YOU to bed with THEM?
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Why Women Love To Have Dirty, Naughty Sex In The Bedroom, (But Only With A Certain Type Of Man)
Nov 27th
Have you ever dreamed of a life where you had really naughty, dirty sex with your woman EVERY SINGLE DAY?
If you answered “YES” to that question (and I’m pretty sure you did because that is what almost every man wants) – read on and I’ll explain some of the reasons to you as to…
Why Women Love To Have Dirty, Naughty Sex In The Bedroom (But Only With A Certain Type Of Man)
Before I tell you why women love to have dirty, naughty sex with certain types of men, let me first share a few sexual secrets with you that most men are unaware of, but that DRIVE WOMEN MAD:
Most men are clueless in bedMost men do not regularly give their women ORGASMS30% of women have never had an orgasm
Pretty interesting, isn’t it?
You see – we guys are quite easy to please. As long as we are naked, in bed with a woman we are physically attracted to and having sex – we tend to be HAPPY with our sex-lives.
But for women; sex is very different.
Women need great sex, (including lots of orgasms), in order to enjoy it and really want it.
And this leads us into why women love to have dirty, naughty sex in the bedroom BUT only with a certain type of man…
Women want ORGASMS.
They want clitoral orgasms, they want VAGINAL ORGASMS and they want multiple orgasms. Truth be told – most woman also want SQUIRTING ORGASMS (YES – female ejaculation does exist).
And when a man comes along who can give a woman that kind of PLEASURE – that woman will feel like she has won the sexual lottery. At this point, she’ll want to have DIRTY, NAUGHTY SEX with that man all the time.
And I do mean ALL THE TIME.
The reason why she’ll want to have sex with that man all the time is because it feels so good for her. Another reason is because women are way more sexual than men. Yes, I really did just say that.
But most men never see that really sexual side of women because they don’t know how to bring it out of them. Women need a strong, sexually confident man to bring their wildly sexual side out of them.
They cannot do it on their own.
And sadly, because most men are lacking in sexual confidence – that explains why most women are not experiencing the kind of INTENSE ORGASMIC PLEASURE in the bedroom that they want, need, crave and deserve.
To summarize everything we’ve just talked about, here is how to make any woman want to have naughty, dirty sex with you all the time…
Give her great sexGive her many kinds of orgasms (clitoral, vaginal, multiple, squirting and more)In order to give your woman those kinds of orgasms and totally sexually satisfy her, you must do the following:
Be strong and SEXUALLY CONFIDENTLead herMake each and every sexual adventure different every timeUse your voice and TALK DIRTYLearn some simple, yet highly effective ORGASM TECHNIQUESFind out more about how to SATISFY ANY WOMAN in the bedroom and make her want to have naughty, dirty sex with you all the time by clicking HERE.
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Spice Up Your Love Life with Attractive Lingerie
Oct 24th
We have a tendency to all understand that a lady looks amazing with the right dress. But there’s something a lot of special with sexy lingerie. With lingerie, the right alternative can dramatically transform a lady from a timid woman to a sexy goddess. Without a doubt, the sexy lingerie can take a lady’s confidence to a different level. So, it is terribly important that you recognize how to find the simplest sexy lingerie to fit your personality. Fortunately, this can be quite simple with the assistance of online stores selling these types of special undergarments. This info will give such details and this will undoubtedly be of women’s interest.
If you want to require your relationship to the next level, the most effective move is to create use of the ability of sexy lingerie for women. Without a doubt, lingerie should be a half of every girl’s closet. You never recognize when you would like the extra confidence to satisfy your partner. With some items of sexy undergarments in your wardrobe, you’ll essentially turn a boring weekend into a special moment together.
Wearing sexy lingerie should be worn on special occasions. However it should not be limited to solely your anniversaries or Valentine’s Day. You can also wear it even with just an uneventful weekend together. If you seldom see every alternative due to busy schedules, this is the proper time to create that boring weekend into a beautiful memory together. It is the proper time to ignite your partner’s lusty desires. And with the proper choice of sexy lingerie, you’ll surely amaze your partner in awe. He will surely notice your new level of confidence when carrying your sexy undergarment. Thus, you’ll wait for a lot of time together and improving your relationship within the process.
What is thus special with carrying lingerie? The cool issue regarding sexy lingerie is that the surprise element. Your man will not really expect to see you in lingerie. When a male is surprised, he can surely be turned on by the component of surprise. This can lead to essentially one thing steamy.
What is the key to successfully wear your sexy lingerie? This can be truly vital with women who never tried this before. The vital issue is to accentuate the foremost enticing elements of your body and conceal your flaws. By shaping your assets, you’re feeling wonderful and beautiful. If you are quite unsure of what to try and do, the best issue to try and do is to go to a web site that makes a speciality of sexy lingerie and that they can surely give expert advices on how to wear them correctly. For privacy, you do not need to go to the store. You can discreetly order these undergarments through their online stores.
If you wish to boost your love life, then you’ll try this by improving your personality and accentuating your beauty. It is time to experiment to begin improving your love life. You can do this with the assistance of sexy lingerie.
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Determining a Couple’s Wedding Success
May 21st
While a man and woman are joined in wedding before God and man, they become one. They make vows to each another recorded in a contract and acknowledged by government, church and society. Getting into this kind of arrangement requires some sort of conviction from the two parties, an aim to be true to each other. In case one should act in bad faith or on other motives, the contract has already began on the wrong foot and also is bound to go throughout difficult times. But one built on good confidence and love will weather any obstacle which may block the couple’s development in sustaining a cheerful family.
The monogamous marriage is the frequent kind of marriage which is between a man and a woman. Being a dedication that ought to final a lifetime, they have to be taught to regulate to the methods of the opposite, higher they need to supplement one another’s weaknesses. What is required is continuous communication between them. Both should express themselves clearly while being their true selves. For a marriage to work, both parties needs to be open with regards their emotions, ideas and understanding. Variations ought to be settled and misunderstandings cleared on both sides without delay.
Misunderstandings must be cleared immediately before the day ends. Taking things for granted or ignoring little problems could allow them to grow and also become unmanageable. If matters have to clarified and explained another party should listen. Occasionally, it’s hard to listen. People do not seem to have the time or they just leave easily. In case only they knew the significance of dialogue. If the two parties are calm and also explain what happend, then troubles may be cleared. In case one party did commit a mistake, then he or she should accept and also apologize. Few people ignore sincere apologies. However if no attempts are made at clarifying things, before one is aware, another is already having hurt emotions because of the oversight. Being sensible is a quality that keeps one aware of the another at all times.
A wedding could only work in case both husband and also wife wish it to work. In case they do, they’ll always find methons to work things out. They will never take each other for granted – he’ll always do things that can make her happy and she could always act in a means that will please him. Even in case the couple knows one another and lives under one roof, still continue making an attempt to be kind, thoughtful, grateful, helpful, and respectful towards each other. Be sensitive to each other’s feelings. Marriage is opening one’s heart, mind, and soul for one other person.
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How To Striptease (Sex Tips For Women)
Mar 6th
Step 1: Togs If you look good, you’ll feel good, so choose an outfit that enhances your features and isn’t something you’d wear everyday. It should be clothing you feel comfortable in, but don’t go for comfort at the cost of sex appeal. and don’t forget smaller items such as stockings, shoes, jewelry and scarves. Wear a costume that allows you to get into character – so you can act out a role play that puts you firmly in the driving seat. Order him to sit down. Tell him not to touch… anything. Step 2: Tempt Now, crank it up a gear by putting on some music that turns you into a woman possessed… by the rhythm of your soul. Work the room, and move around him… over him… and under him. If he tries to touch you, just tie him up. ‘Bump’ him with a pelvic thrust and then ‘Grind’ with a slow circular movement of the hips. Be confident. Parade about and revel in your own magnificence… before you even think about losing some layers. Step 3: Taunt You’re a present about to unwrap all by itself, but don’t let him have all his Christmasses at once, and keep it slow. Slowly unbutton your jacket with your back to him, looking over your shoulder. It’s important here to have buttons or buckles that you can undo with ease. Shrug your shoulders oh so sexily so the jacket falls down your back. Slowly remove each arm and turn to face him with the jacket still covering your traffic stoppers. Now discard the garment with the disdain it deserves…. TOP TIP If you’re a particularly tidy …
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Better Sex Video
Feb 27th
AskMen interviews certified sexologist Dr. Christine Milrod to ask her a few in depth questions about sex. What are some good tips for better sex?
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How to Improve your SEX live!
Jan 26th
Uncover Powerful Insider Secrets That Will Skyrocket Your SEX Life at www.Master-your-Dating-tips.com/sex-rules.html
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Secrets to sexually attract women- Ways to increase sexual tensionby simply a touch.
Jan 5th
www.chickmagnet101.com Are you able to arouse women by simply touching them? You may excite the girl by simply touching her and go ahead to seduce her too. If you don’t know this technique, you are lacking confidence in you. You will learn in this video the secrets to sexually attract women and perfect ways to increase sexual tension simply by touching a girl.
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Better Sex Guide For Women
Dec 12th
Who does not want a big sex? To satisfy, in General, the sex-life Add Spice to your relationship with your partner is essential. But how can you achieve a better sex life? Lovemaking is more than just a “advantage of love.” It requires communication, right attitude, loving body and other parts of the perfect combination. The following are some guidelines to revive their residence in the territory of the women lose sexual drive and reach the accomplishment of the sex-life, eventually.
Better Sex Guide # 1: Avoid straying ideas taking sex.
This relates to the correct attitude about sex.In such a way as to fully experience the JOY of sex, you have free of charge as a matter of fact, negative emotions, such as the self consciousness of guilt, bad judgment, and other hang-ups. [1] [2] This also means, information about the pending jobs are to be avoided, the Office or at the same time, the Declaration entering the goods for the things you are going to be of concern, on the day of love with your partner. only the currently savor and enjoy each other.
Better Sex Guide # 2: relax and do not pressure itself.
Mind-blowing sex should not be forced.You have that, it may happen in many cases, to achieve orgasm. triggers the anxiety, particularly for women who pressure itself into a very performing during sex. because of this, many women hide sexual behavior by faking orgasm subconsciously. That is simply not on the sex of the skin. It is recommended that you relax and enjoy the intimate moments with your partner.
Better Sex Guide # 3: Be healthy and stay Fit.
You are probably aware of the fact that people who get a lot of sex must end with the people.Therefore, in view of the fact that the support of several studies. Could be more sex, you will need more energy to make sure you have enough sleep plenty of rest., sufficient exercise and balanced diet to increase sexual time These factors cause healthy. better blood circulation to the institutions on the basis of sex, which is very important to the foreskin and orgasm.
Better Sex Guide # 4: Release yourself from stress.
Find ways to reduce stress foreskin opportunities to raise.Why not to go at least once a week with your partner?, or you can make your life exciting sex and by taking a shower together or höyryävän expenditure according to the intimate size of the night on the beach.
Better Sex Guide # 5: Accept and love of the body.
You can hate yourself for the time being flat chested or overweight? just because you do not have an ideal Cup-size, it does not mean that there can be a big negative emotions sex. Oman only can ruin the body towards you sensuality.A really important thing is how good the body feels when you’re having sex with your partner.About the love of the body and its curves. you may not aware that large curves look sexy partner.
Better Sex Guide # 6: don’t be afraid to explore and experiment with.
Sharing the passion with your partner should not be serious enough to think of as the funny sex. [3] [4] in the areas of activity shall be free to be creative and try things in a different way. [1] [2] for example, you can talk about your fantasies with your partner and know how to take them into account in the reality. see also, what to you will be able to use bed.
Better Sex Guide # 7: American standard code for information interchange.
Finally, there is a delay in obtaining better sex also needs a good communication between the partners do not be afraid to talk to your partner. [2] [3] concerning the sexual relationship. [1] [2] This leads to each other’s sexual needs, which will lead to greater understanding of the sexual life.
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